You are always in one of four places of connection. No matter what life circumstances you are going through on the outside – victory or defeat, or somewhere in between – there are only four possibilities of connection that you can be in at any given time. This is the premise of The Power of the Other, and science and experience agree, that figuring out where you are is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. While there are four different kinds of connectedness – four possible corners of our relational space – only one of…
Author: Amanda Greene
There’s no feeling that’s more special than falling in love, but that feeling also presents a challenge in those days before you reveal that love to your partner.You may worry that while you’re falling in love, she doesn’t feel the same way. Here are some signs that she has similar feelings to yours and is ready to hear you say those magic words. 1) She makes you two exclusive. When someone is dating casually, they may have several irons in the fire at once. When the relationship starts to get serious, she’ll cut out those other guys and focus just…
Empaths are typically known as the healers of the world. They’re the people whose senses are heightened–the ones that not only see the different energies of the world, but actually feel them, experience them. Those who are not empaths might think that this ability to feel what others feel is a gift, but if you can convince an empath to talk about their gift, they might tell you that it’s not always sunshine and rainbows. In fact, it’s quite often not a very fun gift to possess at all. Image Courtesy: Pexels Because of their gift, so many people rely on…
What is the longest a person has ever lived for? Meet Li Ching Yuen, a man who lived an astonishing 256 years! And no, this is not a myth or a fictional tale. According to a 1930 New York Times article, Wu Chung-chieh, a professor of the Chengdu University, discovered Imperial Chinese government records from 1827 congratulating Li Ching-Yuen on his 150th birthday, and further documents later congratulating him on his 200th birthday in 1877. In 1928, a New York Times correspondent wrote that many of the old men in Li’s neighborhood asserted that their grandfathers knew him when they were boys, and that he at that time…
Women retain and carry living DNA from every man with whom they have sexual intercourse, according to a new study by the University of Seattle and the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center. The study, which discovered the startling information by accident, was originally trying to determine if women who have been pregnant with a son might be more predisposed to certain neurological diseases that occur more frequently in males. But as the scientists picked apart the female brain, the study began to veer wildly off course. As it turns out, the female brain is even more mysterious than we previously thought. The study found that female…
Sometimes we settle. We want to be with someone or we buy into the voices that tell us we’re being too picky and we end up in a relationship with someone that’s not right for us. Don’t do it. Stay single until you meet a man who keeps working to win your heart He doesn’t believe that getting you to go out with him is the hard part; he knows that keeping your love alive is the challenge. Stay single until you meet a man who wants to bring you home to meet his parents He’s proud to be dating…
It’s no secret that having a powerful intellect is a highly valued personal quality. New research shows that when this quality is present in a woman, it can actually help increase her partner’s life expectancy, as well as prevent dementia. In a test in which the health of identical twins was examined, it was found that a person’s surroundings have a major effect on their intellectual abilities. Researchers determined that men who marry intelligent women live longer and are happier and more rarely suffer from diseases like Alzheimer’s or dementia. It’s well known that intellectually stimulating games prevent these diseases because they stimulate the brain. So it’s logical to assume that a partner who constantly stimulates your intellect can have a positive effect…
Empaths often are misunderstood as being weak, or victims of their kindness. That’s not the case at all. Empaths are strong, resilient individuals who are highly sensitive to the feelings and emotions of others. However, when narcissists enter the picture, “victims” are exactly what empaths become if they don’t know how to protect themselves and create boundaries. Empaths want to heal the world, and can’t stand to see someone in pain. Because of this, they are naturally drawn to the irreparably damaged narcissist and their tales of woe. But a narcissist doesn’t want to heal- a narcissist wants to manipulate,…
Love is a little bit of magic, a dash of free will, and whole lot of fate. On Friday, June 23rd, there will be a new supermoon lighting up our hearts. The new moon is often dismissed by many, because she can’t be seen radiating in the sky like she does when she’s full. However, there’s a lesson here: Just because we can’t see something doesn’t mean that it’s not still there. This moon is the last supermoon until December, and it brings a double dose of powerful energy to push us toward that which is meant for us. A moon that…
Are you dating someone who’s full of himself? Self-obsessed? Basically a narcissist? Did you know that they can be the toughest personalities to deal with in relationships? Well, rule #1: Never make the mistake of changing them or helping them, because guess what? Narcissism is actually a mental disorder! So, it’s advisable to consult a therapist, before you try to. Now, let’s get to the point, shall we? Game #1: Mr. Do You Know Who I Am? They have a misconception of the world coming to an end if they wouldn’t have existed. At least, that’s what they want you to…
In a new study conducted by the department of psychology at UNAM, it was discovered that men who were in a relationship with chubby women were ten times happier than those who were with skinny women. Here are the ten reasons why? There’s more to love! Pounds more! They tend to be sweeter Literally and figuratively. They are foodies And men love chowing down with their girls. They can cook better And the way to a man’s heart is through is stomach! Their hugs are nicer Chubby people are better to hug, no exceptions. They are funnier More laughs= more happiness. Curves…
If you have had sex with different people, there are good chances your experience varied each time with each person. It goes without saying that every person is hands down unique in bed – not necessarily good or bad either. It happens to all of us that sometimes our judgments are not on point. You might as well be locked in a passionate embrace with someone you thought would be lackluster in the first place. That’s all normal and happens with most people, and remains all the reason why sex is full of surprises. But have you ever dug the…
Whether you actually believe in astrology or not, we all are indisputably crazy in reading how our luck has turned up today or will tomorrow. Astrology claims to define our abilities, predict our chances at anything, highlight our sensibilities and pretty much ensure the relative importance of certain actions or decisions we make. Has your Zodiac ever told you the sexiest quality you possess? So, according to your Zodiac, this is the *sexiest* trait you have We are gonna start in a chronological order. You can read what your friends’ Zodiac has to say before you jump to yours. 1. Aries…
Do you ever wonder how many people you’ve made a lasting impression on? Probably more than you can imagine. And we can guess why, based on your zodiac sign. Aries (March 21 – April 19) You’re adventurous, full of passion and fire. People remember you as the person that made them feel more alive than they ever had before, like they could do anything with you around. Your streak of crazy, which is totally normal to you by now, has inspired people and given them a memory that they treasure forever. Taurus (April 20 – May 20) You are the…
“I hope she’ll be a fool — that’s the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool.” ― F. Scott Fitzgerald We all have these amazing female friends that are the full package. They’re gorgeous, funny, kind and smart. Yet they are single, and it’s not for a lack of trying. It’s possible that a woman’s intelligence might hinder her chances of finding a man. According to a new study from Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, the more intelligent a woman is, the more likely it is that she is single. These are possible reasons…
Finding a definitive keeper can be a major struggle for a lot woman… And, when it comes to spending your life with a single man, it may require a lot of serious decision making and commitments. If you’re dating someone right now and the guy has at least one of these qualities, marry him… like right now! 1. He respects women It’s not just about respecting you. In fact, it’s about respecting every other woman. How he behaves in front of other women would be a little sign from God. Keep your eyes wide open. 2. He is honest about…
“Compassion hurts.”- Andrew Boyd Empathy is what makes us human. The ability to put ourselves in somebody else’s shoes and momentarily see the world through their eyes. However, sometimes Empaths need to protect themselves from the tsunami of negativity coming at them daily. You can do this in five ways. Look at both sides Often there seems to be so much wrong with the world that Empaths are left in despair. So Empaths should try to look at the positive and negatives of a situation. For example, instead of just reading articles about the violence in Syria, Empaths should also…
Narcissists are the masters of manipulation and exploitation. Watch out for these ten statements and if you hear them run in the opposite direction and fast! Otherwise you might find yourself as in a give and give relationship with a person who has a black hole instead of a heart. “You’ve gotten so healthy!” Aka you’ve gained weight. Narcissists will throw backhanded compliments at you like confetti. It’s their way of establishing superiority. Next time call them out on their disguised insults. “I am the reason for this company’s success” Narcissists take all the credit for the success of the…
In Greek Mythology, Narcissus was a hunter famous for his good looks. However, he was a beauty without brains because he fell in love with his own reflection and died of starvation because he couldn’t take his eyes off himself. And that’s where the term ‘narcissist’ comes from. A person who has excessive admiration for their own qualities. It’s a bit harder to spot narcissists these days because they aren’t necessarily starving in front of mirrors. But with the following seven warning signs, you can determine if someone is a narcissist and hence take following precautions ( like keeping all reflective objects out of…
While social media has made communication super easy, one cannot deny that it has created gaps and empathy seems to be lost. If we look at all of the social media platforms, it’s all about getting the most number of followers, likes, retweets, favourites and other reactions that Facebook introduced. All in all, it’s one big competition of leaving everyone behind and reaching to a point of nothingness which sadly the digital generation believes to be a huge achievement. I belong to the late 80’s generation and I still find someone conveying their wishes or condolence verbally, being physically present…
At some point in our lives, we’ve all heard a comment or two that made us wonder if that person was stuck in the stone age. And even when it’s not to that extreme, there are certain phrases that may not have been intentionally said to be offensive that are still awkward. If you’re a guy reading this, consider this a warning! Here are 10 things you should never say to a woman: 1. “Everything looks good on you” Excuse her? She’s looking for a comment that is more specific. Tell her what really looks good on her. She wants you to…
It is known that family is bestowed upon us, while friends are people we choose to keep around. Friendship is a relationship that is irreplaceable, you can ask anyone who has had even one friend who stuck by when times were tough. The qualities of friendship are known to everyone — loyalty, respect, support, adoration and most importantly, the connection. Not everyone has these qualities because their zodiacs never align with the quorum of friendship. Here are 4 zodiacs that make best to have as friends. 1. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) If you want a friend who is going to make you…
So, you think your zodiac fits in the party squad or do you like to be labeled as a party animal? We bet you do! Imagine having your friends come into town after a long time – you can’t miss a trip to that famous club and have the night of your life now, can you? After having a long, tiring week at work, everyone loves to unwind by partying a little, and who wouldn’t?! How do you find out you if you qualify in the ‘Party Squad’? If you fall in the zodiacs below, we have exciting news for…
What’s the first response that comes from people who talk to those who have recently lost a loved one or have been hit by a tragedy? “I am sorry for your loss”. Although it appears to be a response that is concealed with good intentions and sentiments, people need to stop using it and here’s why: 1. It’s an unnecessary cliché While someone is grieving, they do not need clichés. What they need is actual support, someone to pour their heart to. Someone to help them understand what happened, why they are angry & emotional at the same time, and…
Sometimes it becomes very hard to identify the difference between love and attachment. At times, the lines get so blurred that you can’t really register what is happening around you. However, the difference between attachment and true love is pretty clear. Attachment is toxic, it is all about feeling incomplete without someone. It’s needing. It is more about not being able to live without them. It is about thinking that they are the sole reason why you are on this planet. Love is pure. It’s slow and delicate. It’s not deliberate, you fall in love without even realizing it. It is…
Love and life don’t always turn out like we plan, however, these changes are what make us who we are. Marriage is a bond that cannot be messed around with, if it goes wrong, you end up ruining more lives than just yours. A lot of times, the reason for a bad marriage is that many people rush into the strong bonds of commitment without contemplating the seriousness of it. There is a perfect age for marriage and your Zodiac sign suggests it best – so don’t rush into things, take a look first. 1. Aries (March 20—April 19) Enthusiastic in…
Empaths are typically known as the healers of the world. They’re the people whose senses are heightened–the ones that not only see the different energies of the world, but actually feel them, experience them. Those who are not empaths might think that this ability to feel what others feel is a gift, but if you can convince an empath to talk about their gift, they might tell you that it’s not always sunshine and rainbows. In fact, it’s quite often not a very fun gift to possess at all. Because of their gift, so many people rely on them for…